Emotional Intelligence (EI or EQ) is the ability to identify, assess, and manage the emotions of oneself and others. Daniel Goleman's five components:

Self-AwarenessRecognizing your emotions, strengths, weaknesses, and their impact.
Self-RegulationControlling disruptive impulses. Thinking before acting.
MotivationInternal drive to achieve. Passion, optimism, commitment.
EmpathyUnderstanding others' emotions. Cross-cultural sensitivity.
Social SkillsBuilding networks, finding common ground, persuasiveness.

PMs with high EI are more effective at conflict resolution, team building, and stakeholder engagement.

The Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument identifies five approaches:

CollaborateWin-Win. Multiple viewpoints to consensus. Best long-term approach.
CompromiseLose-Lose (partial). Each party gives up something.
SmoothLose-Win. Emphasize agreement, de-emphasize disagreement.
ForceWin-Lose. Push one viewpoint. Used in emergencies.
WithdrawLose-Lose. Retreat. Temporary; issue remains unresolved.

Key PMP exam point: Collaboration/Problem Solving is preferred. Most common conflict sources: schedules, priorities, resources, technical opinions, personality.

A RACI Matrix clarifies roles and responsibilities for each task or decision:

R — ResponsibleThe person(s) who performs the work. Can be multiple.
A — AccountableUltimate owner. Only one person per task.
C — ConsultedSubject matter experts. Two-way communication.
I — InformedKept up-to-date. One-way communication.

Best Practices

  • Every task must have exactly one "A"
  • Minimize "R" assignments to avoid diffusion of responsibility
  • Review with stakeholders to resolve gaps and overlaps
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